Your Guide to a Dom sub relationship

If you’re reading this, you’re probably intrigued by the world of BDSM and, specifically, the dynamics of a Dom sub relationship. That’s precisely why I rolled up my sleeves and crafted this free course “Top 10 Rules for a Dom sub relationship.” I’ve been around the BDSM block a time or two, and I’ve noticed a glaring lack of reliable, straightforward information for folks like you who are keen to explore but don’t know where to start.

The very first topic we dig into is “Consent is Non-Negotiable.” I can’t emphasise this enough: a Dom sub relationship without clear, ongoing consent is a ticking time bomb. Consent is the cornerstone of any BDSM activity, and it’s especially vital in a Dom sub relationship where power dynamics are at play. Ignoring it isn’t just reckless; it’s downright dangerous.

Once we’ve covered the vital topic of consent, we move on to “Clearly Defined Roles” and “Set Boundaries and Limits.” Think about it; if you’re getting into a Dom sub relationship, you need to know your part in the play, right? Whether you’re the Dominant or the submissive, understanding your role and the rules of engagement will make the whole experience infinitely more enjoyable and safe.

Next up, we delve into “Safe Words are Essential.” A safe word is your emergency brake. It’s the universal symbol for “Hold up, something’s not right.” In a Dom sub relationship, the importance of a safe word can’t be overstated. It’s what keeps everything on the right side of safe and consensual.

But it’s not all rules and safety measures; there’s the human element, too. Topics like “Regular Check-ins” and “The Importance of Aftercare” help maintain the emotional and psychological well-being of everyone involved. A Dom sub relationship is intense; it pokes at emotional and psychological boundaries, which is why these check-ins and aftercare are non-negotiables in maintaining a healthy dynamic.

And yes, we do get into the nitty-gritty with “Bondage, the B in BDSM,” “Discipline, the D in BDSM,” and “Rewards and Punishment.” These are the elements that make a Dom sub relationship incredibly thrilling and fulfilling. These topics offer you the practical know-how to start experimenting with these practices safely and effectively.

So there it is. I created this guide to give you a comprehensive, honest, and, above all, safe blueprint for entering the world of Dom sub relationships. Whether you’re a newbie or a seasoned kinkster looking for a refresher, this guide’s got you covered.

Start your free course: Top 10 Guide for a Dom sub relationship today!


Start your free course: Top 10 Guide for a Dom sub relationship today!

Sources & resources

Academic Articles:

  1. Barker, M., Iantaffi, A., & Gupta, C. (2007). “Kinky clients, kinky counselling? The challenges and potentials of BDSM.”
    • An academic paper on the psychological aspects of BDSM.
  2. Williams, D. J., Thomas, J. N., Prior, E. E., & Christensen, M. C. (2014). “From ‘SSC’ and ‘RACK’ to the ‘4Cs’: Introducing a new framework for negotiating BDSM participation.”
    • Discusses frameworks for safe BDSM practices.

These sources can provide you with additional context, case studies, and theoretical frameworks to better understand BDSM dynamics.

Resource Websites:

  1. BDSM Wiki
    • A resource for BDSM terminology and practices.
  2. FetLife
    • An online community for people interested in BDSM and kink. (Note: You must be 18+ to access).

Free Course: Top 10 Rules for a Dom sub relationship

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Course Provider: Organization

Course Provider Name: Ti Mackenzie

Editor's Rating:
5

Pros

  • Great for individuals or couples to learn about introducing BDSM into a relationship.
  • Easy to follow.
  • In-depth for a free course.
  • Courses certificate at the end.

Cons

  • Would be great to see a longer course.
  • Not for vanilla people.

Your Course Syllabus

Course Introduction

Top 10 Rules for a Dom sub Relationship

Your Bonus Lesson

Course Completion & Certificate

What Others Have Said

Totally thought provoking & insightful…
By: Zazza

This course is a great intro to the D/s space; full of ideas I never knew I wanted (& needed) to know!...I found it very easily navigated as an online experience: well thought through in it's structure, user friendly, and executed so that the content is the focus of your experience. Ti is clearly knowledgeable about D/s dynamics, but doesn't overwhelm you with information. But he does also provide great references to further learning if you want to dig deeper into the topics. I will come back to this course again and again...Thank you, sir!

Unbelievably helpful course for me and my husband!!!
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This is an unbelievably helpful course for beginners like me and my hubby. Very thought provoking and we had some open conversations we haven't had in years! Thanks Ti